Adopting a dog is a joyful, life-changing experience, but it also comes with an adjustment period that many new pet parents don’t expect. Rescue dogs need time to transition from shelter life into a home, and the Shelter to Home, 3-3-3 Method is a simple way to understand what that process looks like.
First 3 Days: Decompression
The first few days are about helping your dog feel safe. Your new pup may seem overwhelmed, quiet, or unsure all completely normal responses to a big change.
During this phase:
Keep things calm and predictable
Limit visitors and stimulation
Focus on basic needs like food, potty breaks, and rest
This is your dog learning, “I’m safe here.”
The First 3 Weeks: Learning the Routine
As your dog settles in, their personality begins to emerge. They’re learning your schedule, house rules, and how to communicate with you.
Consistency matters most during this stage. Clear routines and patience help your dog understand what’s expected and build confidence in their new environment.
The First 3 Months: Feeling at Home
By around three months, many dogs begin to truly relax. Trust grows, bonds deepen, and your dog starts to feel like part of the family.
This doesn’t happen overnight; it happens because you gave them time.
Adoption Is About Patience, Not Perfection
The 3-3-3 Method reminds us that adoption isn’t a test period; it’s a transition. With understanding, structure, and compassion, rescue dogs don’t just adjust; they thrive.
When you adopt, you’re not just giving a dog a home.
You’re giving them the time they need to become family.
If you need help with your pup's adjustment, Dogtopia is a great way to help your pup adjust to their new life. We suggest a 2-3 week time period of adjustment before bringing them in. Go to www.dogtopia.com or our app to sign up for a Meet & Greet today.
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